When I was growing up, leadership education wasn’t something we talked about. Sure, I took classes, volunteered, and joined a few programs—but I didn’t understand why they mattered. No one explained that these were opportunities to develop leadership skills or how they could shape my future.
By the time I had my own kids, I started reflecting on what made a difference in my life. I realized I had accidentally participated in leadership education, even if I didn’t know to call it that. And I wanted to be more intentional with my own children.
As our kids became teens, I reached out to parents with successful young adults. I researched program offerings, explored educational institutions, and looked for programs that focused on developing character and leadership capacity. My oldest joined a debate team. All of our kids attended Worldview Academy Leadership Camps, went on service trips, volunteered, worked jobs, and slowly began to understand what being a leader really looks like.
But here’s the thing: leadership doesn’t have to start in high school. And it doesn’t have to be a class or a camp. Leadership education can begin in everyday moments—even in a game of Capture the Flag.

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Why Games Work in Leadership Education
In today’s evolving education system, our kids need more than academic knowledge. They need to build communication, problem-solving, and decision-making skills—qualities that are central to effective leadership.
Games create practical experiences that mirror real-life scenarios. Whether it’s strategizing with teammates, guiding others, or adapting to unexpected twists, games allow kids to test different leadership styles in a safe, playful environment.
These experiences mirror the kinds of learning that happen in instructional leadership programs, professional development, or even graduate programs in organizational leadership—just scaled down for smaller shoes and bigger imaginations.
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10 Fun Games That Teach Leadership Skills
Here are ten fun, accessible games you can use to help kids and teens grow as leaders—whether you’re teaching in a homeschool, co-op, church group, or public school setting.
- Capture the Flag
A high-energy outdoor game that builds strategic thinking, teamwork, and adaptability. Kids learn to follow and lead, making decisions under pressure. - Telephone (Whisper Down the Lane)
A fun and often hilarious reminder of how communication can break down—and why leaders need to be clear and careful with their words. - Follow the Leader
Especially great for younger kids, this game teaches that leaders set the tone. Everyone takes turns leading and following, building awareness and confidence. - Team Scavenger Hunt
Small groups work together to solve clues and complete tasks. This encourages collaboration, delegation, and seeing the value of every team member. - Simon Says
A simple game that helps kids learn listening, self-control, and how inconsistent leadership can lead to confusion—making it perfect for illustrating subtle leadership dynamics. - Build the Tallest Tower (Spaghetti, Straws, Blocks)
Kids must build the tallest structure using limited materials. It teaches planning, creative problem-solving, and group decision-making. - Red Light, Green Light
While fun and fast, this game teaches focus, adaptability, and how a leader’s actions set expectations for the group. - Role Play Scenarios
Let kids pretend to be “camp director,” “teacher,” or “team leader.” They gain hands-on experience with problem-solving, responsibility, and taking initiative. - Story Chain
Each child adds a sentence to a growing story. This game teaches active listening, respectful contribution, and how teams build success one voice at a time. - Obstacle Course with a Twist
One leader gives verbal directions while blindfolded teammates navigate the course. This builds trust, clear communication, and leadership under pressure—with lots of laughter along the way.

Leadership Learning Can Start Now
As parents and educators, we don’t have to wait for kids to reach graduate levels, apply to degree programs, or write a personal statement to begin shaping their leadership journey.
Every group game at camp, class, or co-op can be an invitation into leadership studies—without them even realizing it. These early, positive experiences can eventually shape student success, involvement in civic engagement, or a future successful career in the education sector, nonprofit organizations, or beyond.
As someone who didn’t see the value of leadership education until much later, I now see its power everywhere. And I want to give my kids (and yours) a head start. Because when we weave leadership into everyday life, we’re helping shape the next generation of school leaders, Christian leaders, education directors, and maybe even a future program faculty member or associate professor.
And it all starts with a game.
Sarah McCubbin and her husband and 9 kids live in Ohio. She loves talking about all kinds of education topics and is passionate about helping families find the best education options in each season! After being very socially awkward growing up, she now loves to help families teach life skills, social skills and leadership to their kids!