101+ Mother’s Day Questions For Your Mom and Grandma

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The ultimate list of fun, meaningful, and thoughtful Mother’s Day questions to ask your mom and grandma, the women who shaped your life.

For a long time, I had an uncomfortable relationship with Mother’s Day. After all, as a mom…especially with young children…it’s hard to get a break. And then, on the day people are supposed to celebrate you…you want to celebrate your own mom and grandma. It can feel hard to find balance

However, one of the best gifts we can give to each other doesn’t require a party…or a big celebration…or spending a dime.

One of the most thoughtful gifts you can offer is your attention, your curiosity, and your own words. This list of questions will help you connect with your mom or grandma on a deeper level, whether you’re spending the day in person or sharing time over a call.

Perfect for homemade cards, memory journals, family gatherings, or even a printable questionnaire, these 101+ Mother’s Day questions are sure to spark laughter, storytelling, and maybe even a few happy tears.

So grab a notebook or your phone, and celebrate Happy Mother’s Day and Happy Grandmother’s Day with some real conversation.

Questions for Kids to Ask Mom on Mother’s Day

These fun questions are perfect for kids of all ages—especially those in early elementary—to ask their mom. They also make a great classroom activity in English Language Arts, Creative Writing, or Social Studies.

• What’s one of your favorite memories of being my mom?
• What did you think when you found out you were going to be a mom?
• What’s the most rewarding thing about being a mom?
• What’s something I did that made you laugh a lot?
• If you had a secret cartoon character name, what would it be?
• What’s your favorite song to sing with me?
• What do you hope I remember most when I’m grown up?
• What’s the first thing you do when you wake up on Mother’s Day?
• What’s your favorite thing we do together?
• What’s the best advice you ever got from your own mother?

Heartfelt & Thoughtful Questions For Mom

• What’s one of your happiest memories of being my mom?
• What did you think when you found out you were going to be a mom?
• What’s the best part about being a mom?
• What’s something you’ve learned from being my mom?
• Is being a mom what you expected it to be?
• What do you hope I remember most about you when I’m grown up?
• What was I like as a baby?
• How do you know you’re doing a good job as a mom?
• What’s one thing you love about our family?
• What makes you feel appreciated?

Funny Things To Ask Your Mother

• What’s the funniest thing I’ve ever done?
• If you had a secret superhero name, what would it be?
• What’s the silliest thing you’ve ever done as a mom?
• Have you ever eaten my candy when I wasn’t looking?
• If you had a whole day with no mom duties, what would you do?
• What cartoon character do you think you’re most like?
• Would you rather have to clean the kitchen with a toothbrush or do all the laundry with no basket?
• What’s your mom “superpower”?
• Can you do a silly dance with me right now?
• If we could invent a new holiday together, what would it be?

Thought-Provoking Questions To Ask Your Mom

• What did you want to be when you were a kid?
• Who was your favorite teacher and why?
• What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to learn?
• What was your favorite thing to do with your mom?
• What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self?
• What’s something you’re really proud of?
• Is there something you wish you could do again from your childhood?
• What’s your favorite book or movie and why?
• What’s something you hope I learn from you?
• What do you think makes someone a good mom?

Questions for Adults to Ask Their Mom on Mother’s Day

Whether you’re heading to brunch, writing homemade cards, or just catching up, these questions help adult children learn more about their mom’s story in her own words. Ideal for higher education, adult education, and even vocational education families who appreciate deep conversation.

• What’s something about motherhood that surprised you?
• What was high school like for you?
• What was your favorite holiday growing up?
• What’s something you hope I always remember?
• How did you pick my name (and what were the runner-ups)?
• Who was your best friend as a kid?
• What’s one thing you wish you had done differently?
• What’s a dream you still hope to achieve?
• What is your go-to advice for hard days?
• What’s your favorite thing about being a mom now

Warm & Reflective Questions For Your Mom

• What’s one thing you’re most proud of in your life?
• What did you think motherhood would be like before you had kids?
• What’s one moment with me that you’ll never forget?
• What’s something you wish more people understood about being a mom?
• What did you love most about raising kids?
• When did you feel the most loved in your life?
• What was the hardest part of motherhood for you?
• What’s something you learned from your mother that you tried to pass on?
• Is there something you wish you had done differently as a mom?
• What’s one thing you’ve never told me but always wanted to?

Nostalgic & Story-Based Questions To Ask Your Mother

• What was your favorite age or season of life?
• What was your first job, and what was it like?
• What were you like as a teenager?
• What kind of student were you in school?
• How did you meet Dad (or your partner)?
• Who was your best friend growing up?
• What was your wedding day like?
• Did you have a favorite family tradition growing up?
• What’s a childhood memory that still makes you laugh?
• Was there a moment you truly felt like you had become an adult?

Personal, Fun & Thought-Provoking Questions For Your Mom

• What’s something on your bucket list?
• If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
• What’s a hobby or interest you wish you’d had more time for?
• What’s a book or movie that really moved you?
• What helps you feel calm or re-centered when life is stressful?
• What’s your idea of a perfect day?
• If you could go back to any decade, which one would you choose and why?
• What’s something you’ve learned in recent years that surprised you?
• How have you changed the most in the last 10 years?
• What advice would you give me for the next 10 years of my life?

Questions to Ask Grandma On Mother’s Day

Grandmothers hold a lifetime of memories and wisdom. These questions are perfect for building connection and honoring her legacy. Ask about her own mother, her school days, and the lessons she’s learned over the years.

• What was your childhood home like?
• What was your relationship with your own mother like?
• How did you meet Grandpa?
• What’s one of your favorite memories from raising your kids?
• What kind of games did you play in middle school or 4th grade?
• What’s something you wish more people asked you about?
• What’s your favorite thing to cook or bake?
• What’s one invention that still amazes you?
• What’s your favorite song from your youth?
• If you could go back and talk to your younger self, what would you say?

Love, Life & Family Questions For Grandma

• What were your parents like?
• What do you remember most about your grandparents?
• What was your wedding day like?
• How did you meet Grandpa (or your spouse)?
• How did you feel when you became a mother for the first time?
• What was it like when you first became a grandma?
• What were your children like growing up?
• What’s your favorite memory of our family all together?
• What do you love most about being a grandmother?
• What’s something you’ve learned from your children or grandchildren?

Questions To Ask Grandma About Childhood & Growing Up

• What were you like as a little girl?
• Where did you grow up, and what was it like?
• What games did you play as a child?
• What kind of clothes did kids wear when you were young?
• Did you have chores as a kid?
• What did you want to be when you grew up?
• What was your school like?
• Did you have a best friend growing up?
• What was your favorite meal or treat as a child?
• What’s one story from your childhood that still makes you laugh?

Questions To Learn Wisdom From Your Grandmother

• What are you most proud of in your life?
• What’s something most people don’t know about you?
• What’s your favorite way to spend a day now?
• What are some of your favorite books, songs, or movies?
• What’s a piece of advice you try to live by?
• What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
• What helps you stay positive when things are hard?
• What do you think makes a happy life?
• If you could relive any age or decade, which would you choose and why?
• What’s one invention that amazes you most?

Fun, Silly & Surprising Questions For Grandma

• Have you ever broken a rule or gotten into trouble?
• What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
• Do you have a hidden talent or hobby?
• Have you ever met anyone famous?
• If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
• Do you like technology, or does it drive you crazy?
• If you could instantly master one skill or activity, what would it be?
• What’s the most fun you’ve had recently?
• If you could have any dessert right now, what would it be?
• Can you teach me how to do something you’re really good at?
• What’s something you hope I always remember about you?

Make It Meaningful: Turn These Into a Gift

• Create a journal using her own answers and add photos or visual arts elements.
• Record a video interview for family gatherings or future generations.
• Make a printable questionnaire using Canva, or explore digital resources like Google Forms.
• Use her responses as a prompt for creative writing or even an occupational therapy or physical education project with students.
• Pair this list with free activities from sites like IXL Learning or your school’s lesson plans.

💡 Tips for Using These Questions

• Let the conversation flow—don’t worry about going in order.
• Add your own answers too—she’ll love hearing about your life.
• Bring them to brunch or share during a video call.
• Use them in physical therapy, vocal music, or visual arts classes for intergenerational projects.
• Great for both 6th grade students creating family history presentations or older adults reflecting on life.

Celebrate the Women Who’ve Made a Huge Impact

This Mother’s Day, give more than just gifts—give presence, curiosity, and connection. Whether you’re talking to your mom, grandma, or another one of the great moms in your life, these Mother’s Day questions are a powerful way to show gratitude and explore the stories that shaped you.

Happy Mother’s Day—and Happy Grandmother’s Day, too!

Mother’s Day Giveaway!

Mother’s Day is just around the corner, and it’s time to celebrate YOU—the hardworking, selfless, incredible moms who give so much every single day. Whether you’re deep in the trenches of motherhood or savoring sweet moments with grown children, you deserve to feel appreciated and loved.

That’s why I’ve teamed up with an amazing group of bloggers once again for our 11th Annual Mother’s Day Giveaway! We’re so excited to bless five moms with a $100 gift card each—and the best part? You get to choose where it’s from! Whether it’s your favorite store, a cozy coffee shop, or somewhere you’ve been eyeing for a little treat, this gift is all about you.

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