This amazing list of Father’s Day Questions is the key to great conversations. Use this meaningful, and thoughtful list to ask your dad and grandpa—the men who helped shape your life.
Father’s Day is a wonderful time to honor the men in our lives who have invested in us. Good dads (and uncles and grandpas who invest in us) help create this stable foundation for families. I am extremely blessed to have a dad who has consistently loved, sacrificed and worked for his family my whole life.
And one of the ways we connect best is through great conversations. Spending time together…talking…thinking and doing life together is the most valuable gift we can give doesn’t require shopping, planning, or wrapping.
One of the most meaningful ways to celebrate Father’s Day is by showing interest, asking questions, and creating space for connection.
Whether you’re sitting down for a family BBQ or chatting long-distance on the phone, this list of Father’s Day questions will spark stories, laughter, and maybe even a few sentimental moments.
They’re great for memory journals, homemade cards, printable questionnaires, or even school projects. Use them with your dad, grandpa, or other father figures to create lasting memories.
So grab your phone or a notepad—and let’s say Happy Father’s Day and Happy Grandfather’s Day with some good conversation.
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Questions for Kids to Ask Dad on Father’s Day
One of the best ways to build relationships between children and parents is simply to have genuine conversations. Our kids can learn so much from our life experience…the good things and the not so good. Teaching our kids how to ask good questions is also an amazing life skill that will serve them well with anyone they know.
- What’s one of your favorite memories of being my dad?
- What did you think when you found out you were going to be a dad?
- What’s the most fun thing we’ve ever done together?
- What’s something I did that made you laugh?
- If you had a secret superhero name, what would it be?
- What’s your favorite song to sing or dance to with me?
- What do you hope I remember most when I’m older?
- What’s the first thing you do when you wake up on Father’s Day?
- What’s your favorite thing about our family?
- What’s the best advice your dad ever gave you?
100+ Funny Questions to Ask Kids
Heartfelt & Thoughtful Questions For Dad
- What was it like the first time you held me?
- What’s one thing you’ve learned from being my dad?
- How is fatherhood different than you expected?
- What do you hope I always remember about you?
- What was I like as a baby?
- What makes you feel appreciated?
- What’s something you’re really proud of?
- How do you know you’re doing a good job as a dad?
- What’s one thing you love about our family?
- What’s a memory you’ll always cherish?
Funny Things To Ask Your Father
These hilarious questions are perfect conversation starters at dinner time. Ask them to dad…and then to anyone else at the table. One of my favorite things about my own husband is that he is absolutely hilarious…sometimes a little too funny. He turns everything into a joke so we laugh a lot.
If you enjoy humor in your house, definitely try these questions!
- What’s the silliest thing I’ve ever done?
- If you could be any cartoon character, who would you be?
- Have you ever stolen a french fry off my plate when I wasn’t looking?
- What’s your dad “superpower”?
- If you had a whole day with no responsibilities, what would you do?
- Would you rather mow the lawn with scissors or wash the car with a toothbrush?
- Can you do a silly dance with me right now?
- What’s your favorite dad joke?
- If we invented a new holiday, what would it be?
- Have you ever played a prank on someone?
Thought-Provoking Father’s Day Questions
- What did you want to be when you were little?
- What’s a lesson you learned the hard way?
- Who was your favorite teacher and why?
- What was your favorite childhood toy or game?
- What’s something you’d tell your younger self?
- What’s a dream you still hope to pursue?
- What makes someone a great dad?
- What’s something you’ve learned from your own father?
- What’s your go-to advice when life gets tough?
- What’s something you’re glad you tried?
Questions for Adults To Ask Their Dad on Father’s Day
When I was growing up, my dad would say, “Hey, come on the porch. Let’s think out loud.” I thought it was normal to have conversations where people just shared ideas for the sake of thinking…processing and clarifying. It turns out “thinking out loud” isn’t something everyone does. I live next door to my parents, so even now, we will hang out around the fire pit or at the kitchen table and “think out loud.” That usually involves asking a lot of questions…but rarely coming to solid solutions. It involves bouncing ideas and processing the world…and just spending time together. It’s one of my favorite things to do with my dad!
- What surprised you most about fatherhood?
- What was high school like for you?
- What were your biggest hopes for your kids?
- How did you pick my name? (And were there other names in the running?)
- What’s one thing you wish you’d done differently?
- Who was your best friend as a kid?
- What’s something that’s still on your bucket list?
- How has being a dad changed you?
- What’s one piece of advice you’d give me for life?
- What’s your favorite part about being a dad now?
Warm & Reflective Questions For Your Father
My dad didn’t grow up in a stable home…he doesn’t have a lot of warm fuzzy stories to tell. As I was growing up, he would share pieces of what it was like from his HARD childhood. But that also became the driving force behind why he was an intentional father with his own kids. Whether your past is shiny like a new penny (hint: probably not…no one’s is) or whether there were a few bumps along the way, these questions are a great way to build connection with the people you love.
- What are you most proud of in your life?
- What’s one moment with me you’ll never forget?
- What’s something you wish more people understood about fatherhood?
- What did you love most about raising kids?
- When did you feel the most loved in your life?
- What was the hardest part of being a dad?
- What’s something you learned from your own dad that you tried to pass on?
- What’s something you’ve never told me but always wanted to?
Nostalgic & Story-Based Questions For Your Father
I absolutely love watching dads when they start talking about their families…how proud they are of their kids, how they love their wives and about the moments that made them into the men they are today. Strong…hardworking men…suddenly soften when they talk about the people they care about….and it is amazing.
We need more men who can share their stories….who wear their heart occasionally and who make their kids feel safe. These questions in this list are some really easy ones that connect to the deeper moments in life.
- What was your first job, and what was it like?
- What were you like as a teenager?
- What kind of student were you in school?
- How did you meet Mom (or your partner)?
- What was your wedding day like?
- What’s a childhood memory that still makes you laugh?
- Was there a moment you truly felt like a grown-up?
- What family traditions did you love growing up?
- What’s your favorite family memory with us?
- What’s a story from your past you want me to remember?
Personal, Fun & Thought-Provoking Questions For Your Dad
- What’s something on your bucket list?
- If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
- What’s a hobby or skill you wish you had more time for?
- What’s a movie or book that really impacted you?
- What helps you stay calm during stressful times?
- What’s your idea of a perfect day?
- If you could revisit any decade, which one would it be and why?
- What’s something new you’ve learned recently?
- How have you changed the most over the years?
- What advice do you have for me in the next 10 years of life?
Questions to Ask Grandpa On Father’s Day
Grandparents have this very special opportunity to bridge the past and the present for their grandchildren. Life today is not how it always was. These questions are a wonderful way for kids and teens to understand the changes that have happened in the life of a person they care about. Reading history in a textbook is interesting….but sort of detached. Talking to someone who lived it makes it come alive!
- What was your childhood home like?
- What was your relationship with your own father?
- How did you meet Grandma?
- What kind of games did you play as a kid?
- What’s something you wish more people asked you about?
- What’s your favorite thing to cook or grill?
- What invention amazes you the most?
- What was your favorite song or band growing up?
- If you could give one message to your younger self, what would it be?
- What’s something you’re really proud of?
Love, Life & Family Questions For Grandpa
- What were your parents like?
- What do you remember most about your grandparents?
- What was your wedding day like?
- What did you feel when you became a dad for the first time?
- What was it like becoming a grandfather?
- What do you love most about being a grandparent?
- What were your children like growing up?
- What’s one thing you hope I always remember about you?
- What’s something you’ve learned from your kids or grandkids?
Questions To Ask Dad or Grandpa About Childhood
I have always enjoyed hearing my parent’s stories from childhood. My mom was one of 11 children and my dad was one of 6. I have 9 children. While all of our homes were very different….one thing that we can all laugh about is the AMAZING amount of food required to raise kids….especially teen boys. Hearing my dad talking about his mom going to the grocery store every day (to avoid her sons eating everything in the pantry) brings a smile to my face…I can totally relate. My mom was the oldest daughter so she has many stories of cooking for a small army (to which I can also relate!)
Stories are a beautiful way to share the simple details of every day life that build connection!
- What were you like as a little boy?
- What kind of chores did you have to do?
- What did school look like when you were young?
- What games did you play?
- What clothes did kids wear back then?
- What did you want to be when you grew up?
- What was your favorite treat or meal?
- What’s a childhood memory that still makes you laugh?
Learn From Grandpa’s Wisdom
- What are you most proud of?
- What’s something most people don’t know about you?
- What’s your favorite way to spend the day now?
- What are your favorite books, movies, or songs?
- What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
- What do you think makes a happy life?
- How do you stay positive during hard times?
- If you could relive any decade, which would you choose and why?
Fun, Silly & Surprising Questions For Grandpa
- Have you ever broken a rule or gotten into mischief?
- What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
- Do you have a secret talent or funny hobby?
- Have you ever met anyone famous?
- What’s the most fun you’ve had recently?
- Do you like modern technology or find it frustrating?
- What dessert would you eat right now if you could?
- Can you teach me something you’re really good at?
Make It Meaningful: Turn These Questions Into a Gift
- Create a memory journal with your dad or grandpa’s answers.
- Record a video interview to save for the future.
- Use Canva or Google Forms to make a printable keepsake.
- Turn answers into creative writing prompts or school projects.
- Pair with free learning tools from sites like IXL Learning.
💡 Tips for Using These Questions
- Don’t worry about asking them in order—let the conversation flow.
- Add your own answers too—he’ll love hearing your perspective.
- Great for Father’s Day brunches, school projects, or quiet chats.
- Use them for intergenerational interviews or family nights.
Celebrate The Men Who’ve Made A Big Impact
This Father’s Day, give something that lasts—real connection. Whether you’re honoring your dad, grandpa, or another incredible father figure, these questions are a powerful way to show love, gratitude, and curiosity.
Happy Father’s Day—and Happy Grandfather’s Day, too!
Sarah McCubbin and her husband and 9 kids live in Ohio. She loves talking about all kinds of education topics and is passionate about helping families find the best education options in each season! After being very socially awkward growing up, she now loves to help families teach life skills, social skills and leadership to their kids!
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